DB: Sometimes you have to jump over your shadow, you know. We all do.
Me (dreamily): in order to jump over your own shadow you need the shadow in front of you. That only works if the light source is behind you. Maybe we should turn round and walk towards the light inste-
DB (exasperated, interrupting): ARGH! I was speaking metaphorically..
Me (grinning): ….so was I….
He wasn’t interested in the explanation, he was more concerned about the lack of organisation in my life.
I get that. Kinda. Especially when the washing doesn’t fit in the washing basket any more.
I still like my metaphor better.
If you go far enough towards the light, especially if it’s above you, you can lose your shadow too (or at least considerably reduce it’s size) and be illuminated as a bonus.
I reckon if you focus on changing your ‘faults’ you run out of energy for getting even better at the things you do well.
I guess I still need to work on my organisation, just not at the expense of my creativity (and patience and everything else)….