Quote: on coming alive

“Don’t ask what the world needs, ask what makes you come alive, and go do it.

Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

– Howard Thurman

One of my favourite people told me today that she sees me as a “PowerFrau”. That translates literally as “power woman”, but kind of loses something in the translation. She means she thinks I’m always doing/achieving something. She occasionally has a point. In the last 6 months I have, among other less noteworthy things, dug a pond, been to evening classes, survived a breakup, sat exams, moved house, set up a 350l aquarium, written and presented a dissertation, driven across Germany, visited my family in England twice, produced the prizes for a chemistry competition, helped a friend pack the contents of her house ready to move and worked more or less full time.

I don’t feel like a PowerFrau at the moment though. I feel like someone’s stolen my batteries, and maybe filled the space with lead. There are some days where life is just hard. Everything seems heavier than normal and it counts as an achievement to survive the entire day intact. It doesn’t help that it’s damp and dark for most of my non-working hours.

What I need to do to feel alive is probably sleep more. My sleep dept might not be as obviously well-recorded as my sister’s, but it’s still made it’s mark and left rainbow-coloured suitcases under my eyes. I look forward to a time where I’m not dragging myself to work, where I feel up to cooking, where I can imagine going anywhere non-urgent, for pleasure, instead of curling up on my sofa. Where watching the fish is something I do between activities instead of the main attraction. Where washing my hair isn’t a hassle and going shopping is something I can be excited about.

That’s a vision for a future in which I am slightly more alive than I am now. The future beyond that will hopefully be even better, I just can’t picture it yet.

Baby steps.

And sleep.

Lots of sleep.

Quote – humanness

It’s a funny thing about us as humans that tenderness, the humor, and the humanness, is the first thing we want to see in others and the last thing we want to show them in ourselves.
– Meg Word​en

Quote – regrets

I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting not doing what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I’d just been myself.

– Brittany Renée
(Just to fill a bit of the gap before I finally post one of the million half-finished posts in my folder.

Yes, it’s relevant, because I would rather spend time writing than [insert all the things other people think I should be doing instead]. I hope I will somehow make MY priorities feature more often in my life soon. Now to figure out how… 🙂

Happy Thursday people!).

Quote – busy but barren – Sokrates

“Beware the barrenness of a busy life”.

– Socrates*

I have been, and indeed still am, stupidly  busy for a month or so  – as witnessed by the emergence of a barren wasteland on this blog.

“This too shall pass”*

I will hopefully be back to writing semi-regularly in a year or so (maybe earlier if I ever get my act together and actually finish writing this essay ;)).

* both quotes found here – thank you 🙂

Quote: summing up the morning after [Brexit]

Just found this: written on the morning after the Brexit vote:

“Good afternoon, and welcome to a brave new EU-free world.

Just to recap: the UK has voted to leave the European Union in a result that came down to just 1.39m votes.

The value of the pound has dropped through the floor. Sinn Fein are calling for a united Ireland. Prime minister David Cameron has resigned. SNP leader Nicola Sturgeon has said that Scotland is looking at a new independence referendum. The Labour party has tabled a motion to get rid of Jeremy Corbyn.

And it’s only lunchtime.

– Bethan McKerban

Whatever you think of the whole Brexit thing, you have to agree that’s a fantastic summary :).

Quote: Busyness, mountains and early mornings

“Wherever I am, the world comes after me.
It offers me its busyness. It does not believe that I do not want it.
Now I understand why the old poets of China went so far and high into the mountains, then crept into the pale mist.”

Mary Oliver, Why I Wake Early

I wouldn’t go so far as to wake up early on purpose*, and I don’t have any decent mountains here, but I can certainly understand not wanting to accept the constant hassle, the hectic, the busyness thrust at me 😉

I’ve only recently discovered this poet, but I think I’m already addicted. 🙂

* at least not for pleasure…

Quote – On finding oneself

Resolve to be thyself: and know, that he who finds himself, loses his misery.

– Matthew Arnold

That sounds like the best sort of resolution….

(I found the quote here. Ray’s Daily is full of awesome quotes and inspiring passages – go and see for yourself :))

On taking criticism – or not…

“You can’t take criticism, can you?!”

How are you supposed to answer that?!

I guess I can’t. I can’t answer the question and I don’t handle criticism well. Not the mean kind and often not the wellmeaning.

I think it’s like the saying:

“It’s not what they say, or even what they do. It’s how they make you feel.”

If you have criticism, and have to share it with me, try and share it without making me feel bad – that way we’ll both get something out of the conversation.

Thanks 🙂

On hot water bottles and heroism

Greater love hath no man than this, that a man getteth out of bed at 3am and refilleth the hot water bottle for his girlfriend

– Slightly adjusted from John 15:13
King James Version (KJV)


On falling in holes

I spend quite a lot of time falling into holes.

Sometimes I dig them myself.

Sometimes other people dig them.

And sometimes I’m pushed.

"I didn't fall in, I was bounced"

Quote: crazy

“I’ve always been crazy – it’s kept me from going insane”

– Waylon Jennings, I’ve always been crazy